Wanting To Get Your Ex Back? – 5 Ways To Say I’m Sorry

Are you miserable and wanting your ex back, if so you really need to be able to say "I'm sorry" and mean it! People don't always give enough credit to how powerful a sincere apology is toward mending a relationship. You may wonder why you should be the one to apologize when it takes two to argue? It really doesn't matter at this point, what you need to do now is wipe the slate clean.

After all, you are at least 50% responsible for the arguments and fights you had. Search yourself and you can surely find some things that you need to apologize for. Doing this right takes sincere effort on your part.

5 Ways to make it impossible to resist your apology:

1. Be sincere - truly confess what you did that was wrong. An insincere apolgy is not worth anything. You will feel relief and likely a lot of the negative feelings between the two of you will start to dissolve.

2. Be prepared - don’t rush into your apology. Think things through and have a plan for what you are going to say. Word things in a way that will make your ex realize that you put a lot of thought into your apology.

3. Never say “but” – This word is used when you want to put part of the blame on someone else. Don't undo what good you have done up to this point by trying to shift the blame.

4. No arguing – If your ex has trouble accepting your apology right away, don’t argue about it. You did break up and they need some time to make sure you mean it.

5. Make positive changes – Follow up your apology with working on changing your negative behaviors. You need to take action to show that your words meant something.


Really try hard to convince your ex that you are on their side, which is the whole meaning of the apology. You should agree with their decision to break up and let them know you want to work on the problems. This can make a real difference when they think you take their concerns seriously. If you've been afraid to make a move, don't wait any longer to make a sincere apology. It may end up being the key to getting your ex back.

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