Boyfriend Break Up What Can I Do to Get Ex Back?

Do you remember the first time your boyfriend kissed you? You're probably wondering what happened since then that was so awful that you had your boyfriend break up with you.

I'm sure you are hurting inside right now and wondering what you did wrong. Don't spend too much time beating yourself up right now. Most likely your guy had issues of his own, that's why they say it's not you, it's them.

If you want to get your ex boyfriend back, there are some steps you should follow. Here's some ideas to get you started:

• Back off from your ex. He wants to take a break from you, so that means not calling or texting him all the time. Give things some time to cool down, say a month or so.
• Flirting with other guys is healthy for you, and if he is around he may wish that he was your boyfriend again.
• Write him a letter. In the letter apologize for something you did wrong and tell him you are ok with the break up. He won't be expecting this, the fact is he's imagining you as broken hearted.
• Let him know that you have moved on with your life. Mention something fun or new you have been doing and act real casual with him. You will make him curious and leave him wanting to know more.

I'd be willing to bet that he is now interested in seeing you again. Make a casual date for a brief meeting over lunch or coffee. Show up looking your best and do NOT get emotional or come across as needy. You want to show him you are strong, confident and not desperate to be with him. Keep the conversation light, friendly and don't get too personal. Leave him wanting more. Even a boyfriend break up can survive if you truly love each other.

These methods can get you a long way if you want to get ex back after boyfriend break up. Don't blow it by going too fast, make sure and keep your cool.

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