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Sunday, August 31, 2008

7 Ways To Rekindle His Interest In You and Your
Relationship



By Michael Webb



Are you frustrated that your relationship doesn’t
have the magic and romance that it once had? Scared
this may affect or eventually end your
relationship?

You’re not alone. Living with the same partner for
a long time can become stable and comfortable, and,
as a result, can also cause the loss of the spark
that made your relationship so special in the first
place. Here are some simple, fun and creative ideas
to reignite that magic:


1. Send them a unique gift at work.

Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a
bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two
stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your
two names pointing to the stick figures. Write ‘I
Love You’ inside a heart. Next get a large formal
envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a
formal address label of your partner's workplace,
such as: “For the immediate and urgent attention
of: Rebecca Jones, Level 20, Collins & Smith
Solicitors, New York.” Mail it to your partner so
they receive it in the middle of a busy day.


2. Become kids again.

If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and
give your partner a ride. This will often bring
back happy memories from their childhood.


3. Fun with water.

On a hot summer’s day, buy two large water pistols
and take them to the beach with you. Pull them out
and throw one to your partner and then have a huge
water fight.


4. Bring back childhood memories.

Contact your partner's family and ask if there was
anything she always wanted when she was a little
girl. For example, if she always wanted a porcelain
doll, buy one for her birthday. She will not only
appreciate the gift, but also the fact that you
were thoughtful enough to find out what she always
wanted. You can do this for your man too.


5. Organize a backyard picnic on a warm summer’s
night.

Spread a picnic blanket on the ground and get
together some snacks, chocolates and champagne. Lie
down on the blanket with your partner and gaze up
at the stars together.


6. Show you’re grateful for your partner.

Leave a long-stem rose where your partner will find
it, with a note on it saying: "Thank you for coming
into my life."


7. Spice up your lovemaking.

Surprise your partner with a little gift after you make
love, try a new position, learn to give your partner a
sensual massage before or after, or just spend some
time staring into each other’s eyes and caressing their
bare skin before making love.

So there you have it 7 ways to add more passion
and excitement to your relationship starting right away.

About the Author:

Michael Webb's latest book, "Getting Him Back"
provides you with a step-by-step plan to get your
ex back, help heal relationships and even prevent a
breakup. For all the details, visit:
Get Your Lover Back