1st Steps to Take After A Breakup - If You Want Your Ex Back

Listen to this video to find out the very first steps you want to take after a breakup, assuming you do want to get your ex back!

This video is by T. Dub Jackson who wrote the book, a"The Magic of Making Up" will give you some really good info that you can USE right now to help get your relationship back together.e 6, 201


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Boyfriend Break Up What Can I Do to Get Ex Back?

Do you remember the first time your boyfriend kissed you? You're probably wondering what happened since then that was so awful that you had your boyfriend break up with you.

I'm sure you are hurting inside right now and wondering what you did wrong. Don't spend too much time beating yourself up right now. Most likely your guy had issues of his own, that's why they say it's not you, it's them.

If you want to get your ex boyfriend back, there are some steps you should follow. Here's some ideas to get you started:

• Back off from your ex. He wants to take a break from you, so that means not calling or texting him all the time. Give things some time to cool down, say a month or so.
• Flirting with other guys is healthy for you, and if he is around he may wish that he was your boyfriend again.
• Write him a letter. In the letter apologize for something you did wrong and tell him you are ok with the break up. He won't be expecting this, the fact is he's imagining you as broken hearted.
• Let him know that you have moved on with your life. Mention something fun or new you have been doing and act real casual with him. You will make him curious and leave him wanting to know more.

I'd be willing to bet that he is now interested in seeing you again. Make a casual date for a brief meeting over lunch or coffee. Show up looking your best and do NOT get emotional or come across as needy. You want to show him you are strong, confident and not desperate to be with him. Keep the conversation light, friendly and don't get too personal. Leave him wanting more. Even a boyfriend break up can survive if you truly love each other.

These methods can get you a long way if you want to get ex back after boyfriend break up. Don't blow it by going too fast, make sure and keep your cool.

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How to Get My Ex Back When He Has Moved On

Has your boyfriend left you and now you are left asking "how to get my ex back when he's moved on"?

You don't have to mope around feeling like you've lost him forever because that may not be the case. There are some things that you can be doing right now to help get your ex back, even if he is dating another woman and doesn't seem to be interested in you.

1) Your first tip to getting your boyfriend back is to convince him that he really does want you.

There are several things you can use to gain his interest unless he really and truly wants nothing to do with you at all.

2) One of the most effective tactics you can use is to just be his friend.

A good friend that he can get along with that doesn't cause any emotional scenes. Show that you understand him and have fun and joke around together. Allow time for all the emotional stress and drama surrounding your breakup have died done and he might realize that he wants to get back together with you again.

3) When you talk to your ex, be sweet and easy to talk to, but play a bit hard to get.

Having a bit of an attitude can show him that you are not ready to fall into his arms just because he crooks his little finger. Just being a bit out of his reach may make him want you all the more, you know like wanting what you can't have.

4) Even though you are playing hard to get make sure he knows that you are available.

While it's ok to flirt and hang out with other friends, males included, don't overdo it. While a bit of jealously may be all right, you don't want to totally discourage him by making him think that you are not available.

5)Do not act desperate - it will kill his interest.

You will seem weak and pitiful and not appealing. You want to attract him, not repel him. Play it cool and act like what happened is ok and that you are ready to move on. This will intrigue him and get his interest.

6) Another trick - if you catch him looking at you or you feel like he is, then look at him out the corner of your eye. This is kind of showing him that you notice, but you appear mysterious and out of reach at the same time.

7) Once in awhile, reminisce about some of the good times that the two of you had together.

Thinking about the closeness you had and how good you were together can only help make him long for things to be the way they used to be. Just avoid bringing up any bad memories, they will only hurt your cause.

These tips are just the beginning ones to win your ex back.

They are also the first steps I followed when I lost the love of my life. And truthfully, they aren't my own ideas. I turned to T 'Dub' Jackson when I had just didn't know what to do to or how to get my lover back.
T 'Dub' wrote a complete, step by step plan that anyone can understand called "The Magic Of Making Up".
It certainly worked like magic for me and my partner. Now we are more in love than ever and have a better and more passionate relationship. Check out his website for more details and to see the free videos at: The Magic of Making Up
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