You may feel like there’s nothing you can do to win your ex back.
Don’t give up, I’m going to give you some tips you can work on to get them back. Tips that will disarm your ex and have them wondering why they broke up with you in the first place. I’ve been there and made a lot of the same mistakes that most people make after their partner breaks up with them. I had to learn the hard way. Let’s see what you can do that will really change your ex’s mind.
To begin with, don’t let your emotions control you.
A common mistake that I made and most make that have recently been dumped is to continuously call or text your ex. This is super annoying to your ex and will only drive them further away from you. Some people even watch their house hoping to get to see their ex. This is about the worst thing you can do. You need to get control of this behavior and stop harassing your ex. You goal should be to miss you and not be looking to avoid you!
Next, go out and have some fun! Be seen by your friends (and your mutual friends out enjoying yourself). An even better idea is to go out on some dates. You may actually find yourself having fun with someone who is not your ex! This will bother your ex when they see that you are actually going on with your life without them. Even though they broke up with you, they won’t expect this and it will actually make you more appealing to them.
Finally, ask your ex to meet with you for a brief visit, like at a coffee shop or other public place.
If it’s in public, it tends to not get too emotional. The idea of this meeting is to apologize. If you are honest with yourself, you can surely come up with something that you can apologize for. Just be sincere and this usually works so well that your ex will be extremely open and willing to discuss getting back together with you!
If things don’t happen the way you want right away, don’t give up! I just recently read a great book on the subject and you can check it out here: “The Magic of Making Up” here. I really think it can help you.
To win your ex back you just need a solid, common sense plan that works.
Following a plan of action that uses common sense instead of following your emotions really will help you get your ex back. Find out how to get them to return your phone calls, and other tips here: Make Up Magic
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