Scared You’ll Never Get Your Ex Back? 7 Steps To Take to Win Them Back

If you’ve been miserable since your breakup then you need to have a plan to get your ex back starting today!

It’s miserable to be told goodbye by someone you love and feel like that’s the end of everything you had together. You think that you’d do anything to get your ex back, but are unsure and scared of how to go about it. Having a plan of action to take can help give you the confidence you need to get started.

Even though these steps may appear too simple or obvious, they really can change things around for the better.
These ideas will get your ex to notice you and realize that you aren’t moping around at home waiting for them to call. They will be intrigued and curious to find out more.

1. Go out with friends and have fun for a night or two. This is good for you to loosen up and enjoy things again. People may very well mention to your ex that you’re taking the breakup pretty well.
2. Keep up your appearance. When you take care of yourself, you can appear attractive and appealing. This may remind your ex of what attracted them to you in the first place.
3. Get some exercise. Again, you will look and feel better. Working out is good therapy when you are under stress and the mental pain of the breakup.
4. Stay away from your ex. That means no phone calls or text messaging or anything else for a month at least. This step is really important in getting your ex to come back to you. It allows both of you time to cool down emotionally and let your ex start to miss you.
5. An apology works wonders. By apologizing to your ex they will feel like no matter what you are on their side. Of course, you have to mean it and come across that way or your ex won’t buy it. The point isn’t who was right and who was wrong, but that you are willing to admit that you aren’t perfect. They will feel like you understand them and are willing to support them even during what you two are going through.
6. A new hobby can distract your mind from your ex for awhile. You need a break mentally so you can rest your mind enough to think things through. Distracting yourself by learning and doing something new is a great way to get this needed break.
7. Plan! This is key to actually getting your ex back. You don’t want to appear like you are waffling back and forth and don’t know your own mind. Taking the right steps will make you appear decisive and sure of yourself. Having a plan what to do next will help you stick with it if you don’t see the results you want right away.

There's more ways than this to get your ex to come back to you and even ways to get them to chase you instead.

For them to work you've got to put yourself in the right mindset and know you're going to succeed. Not everyone succeeds in getting their ex back, but armed with these tips you've already increased your chances more than most people out there.

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