Do you wish you had the "magic words" to make you ex want to return your phone call. While it may sound nuts, the right words will really make them feel like they have to call you back. Cool huh?... So, the answer to "How do I get my ex to return my phone call? Or text message or email. BUT... *********** WARNING! *********** You don't want to use this technique by itself without a plan or strategy of what to do when they do call you back! You may end up causing even more damage to your relationship that way. In the book, the Magic of Making Up, you will find a complete strategy. So, if you think the message to leave your ex is one you feel like you could try, you should definitely check out the book and have planned what to do next! **************** What NOT to Say! **************** Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER works. and worse... Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position. These usually fall into 2 categories. The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like "John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you." And the EMERGENCY- "Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this." Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches? So, I won't go on and on... ************************************ How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage *********************************** Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are *Curiosity & *Self Interest And here's the BIG SECRET! When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work 'magic' So... Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME. In a friendly tone: "Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person." Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest? John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?" "What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message. Now... Before you call you need to do the "Set Up"...which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate. It can be any small thing...but needs to be believable. But more importantly... ************ 2nd WARNING! ************ Please have an underlying strategy like you will find laid out in the Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call.If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly. Okay? What I am saying is... What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call. Make sense? Have a PLAN!More details here!
