<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4691512935147628295</id><updated>2011-09-19T11:56:11.556-07:00</updated><category term='get over your ex'/><category term='Get Phone Calls Returned'/><category term='saving a relationship'/><category term='get ex boyfriend back'/><category term='5 Ways To Say I&apos;m sorry'/><category term='Video - Goodnight kiss'/><category term='Magic of Making Up Review'/><category term='Should you take your ex back?'/><category term='get  ex back'/><category term='Video - 1st Steps to take after a breakup'/><category term='Get ex back'/><category term='Have a successful marriage'/><category term='Testimonials'/><category term='Deal with a break up'/><category term='why ex girlfriend dumped you'/><category term='Fear of intimacy'/><category term='win back girlfriend'/><category term='ex wants you back'/><category term='Tips on What NOT to Do'/><category term='video - How To Get Your Ex Back'/><category term='50 Secrets To Blissful Relationship'/><title type='text'>Make Up Magic</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Carrie J.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10963563740039165650</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>28</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4691512935147628295.post-6200228230922903863</id><published>2009-02-25T20:16:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-06-07T21:31:37.927-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Magic of Making Up Review'/><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102);font-size:180%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;If You Follow the Steps in "The Magic of Making Up" System&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; - &lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;You Will Get Your Ex Back!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Ewv8HE1srjY/SWqLaGC_LFI/AAAAAAAAAFo/scuVvm1lJ-c/s1600-h/close+couple.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 142px; height: 143px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Ewv8HE1srjY/SWqLaGC_LFI/AAAAAAAAAFo/scuVvm1lJ-c/s320/close+couple.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5290193992716069970" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICrev"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(204, 0, 0);font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;REVIEW of the Magic of Making Up System&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do you feel like you've lost all hope for future happiness? While that may sound dramatic, it's a very real feeling if you broke up with your lover. If you're like me when I got dumped, you are desperate for advice, any advice that will get you back with your ex. I want to share my thoughts on this book with you since it guarantees you will get your ex back if you follow the steps in the book!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICrev"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;The Magic of Making Up&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; explains what mistakes people make after a breakup and why doing those things will drive your ex further away. For example, if you are texting them, calling them or emailing them all the time this is a big turn-off and makes your ex want to avoid you. Most of us have a compelling desire to try and get them to understand, because if you could just explain how much they mean to you they  would let you come back - at least in our minds. Find out what you &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;can&lt;/span&gt; do that will get you positive attention from your ex.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt; Here's a few highlights of the book I thought worth mentioning:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Chapter 1&lt;/span&gt; - You will find out why your relationship ended and why it is &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;not &lt;/span&gt;over yet!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Chapter 2&lt;/span&gt; - Why you should not panic - and what to do instead! Also find out about the &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;"fast-forward technique&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;"&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Chapter 4&lt;/span&gt; - How to  &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;break the pattern&lt;/span&gt; that was build by bad feelings and experiences and change it for the better.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Chapter 5&lt;/span&gt; - If you go out on dates with other people, it will help you in your plan to get back together with your ex.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Chapter 6&lt;/span&gt; - How to avoid making mistakes by easing back into things. How to handle your first contact, what to do and what &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;not&lt;/span&gt; to do. Here you'll also read about the powerful &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;"instant reconnect technique"&lt;/span&gt; that will trigger your ex partner's mind into feeling like you are a couple again!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Chapter 7&lt;/span&gt; - This is for when you are back together. How to maintain the fun in your relationship and avoid falling back into bad habits and mistakes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);font-size:100%;" &gt;Positive points:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The &lt;a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICrev"&gt;Magic of Making Up system&lt;/a&gt; is not a rehash of other methods out there. The techniques and strategies are &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;easy to understand&lt;/span&gt; and anyone should be able to use them. The idea is to learn how to make use of the underlying reasons why people take their ex back.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The author, T. Dub Jackson gives free samples at his website and you can read testimonials from people who have used the methods and gotten back together with their partners.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you are serious about having a "happy ever after" with the love of your life, then you should follow the methods outlined in this book. These are powerful techniques written by an understanding of the way people's minds work and how they respond.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Definitely a thumb's up.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;Negative points:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This will take effort from you to make it work. You need to take the time to follow the methods correctly, a half-hearted effort will not get you the results you want. You will have to exercise patience and self control. Only buy this book if you truly are serious and willing to do whatever it takes to get your ex back.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;If you are ready to be reunited with your ex lover and walk around with a light heart again, then you owe it to yourself to get this book&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; NOW!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);" href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102);"&gt;You can go to The Magic of Making Up site by clicking here&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;You will also be able to see helpful videos and read real life testimonials of people who have successfully reunited with their ex due to following the steps in the book!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4691512935147628295-6200228230922903863?l=make-upmagic.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/feeds/6200228230922903863/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4691512935147628295&amp;postID=6200228230922903863' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/6200228230922903863'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/6200228230922903863'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/2008/10/magic-of-making-up-review-must-read-if.html' title=''/><author><name>Carrie J.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10963563740039165650</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Ewv8HE1srjY/SWqLaGC_LFI/AAAAAAAAAFo/scuVvm1lJ-c/s72-c/close+couple.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4691512935147628295.post-6504267685805488122</id><published>2009-02-20T08:18:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-05-22T19:24:38.365-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='get ex boyfriend back'/><title type='text'>Boyfriend Break Up What Can I Do to Get Ex Back?</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Ewv8HE1srjY/SabCclOXhGI/AAAAAAAAAGs/E3imiO0HVSE/s1600-h/couple+beach.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 300px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Ewv8HE1srjY/SabCclOXhGI/AAAAAAAAAGs/E3imiO0HVSE/s320/couple+beach.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5307143007187207266" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do you remember the first time your boyfriend kissed you?&lt;/span&gt; You're probably wondering what happened since then that was so awful that you had your boyfriend break up with you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;I'm sure you are hurting inside right now and wondering what you did wrong.&lt;/span&gt; Don't spend too much time beating yourself up right now. Most likely your guy had issues of his own, that's why they say it's not you, it's them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you want to get your ex boyfriend back, there are some steps you should follow.&lt;/span&gt; Here's some ideas to get you started:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Back off from your ex. He wants to take a break from you, so that means not calling or texting him all the time. Give things some time to cool down, say a month or so.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Flirting with other guys is healthy for you, and if he is around he may wish that he was your boyfriend again.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Write him a letter. In the letter apologize for something you did wrong and tell him you are ok with the break up. He won't be expecting this, the fact is he's imagining you as broken hearted.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Let him know that you have moved on with your life. Mention something fun or new you have been doing and act real casual with him. You will make him curious and leave him wanting to know more.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;I'd be willing to bet that he is now interested in seeing you again. &lt;/span&gt;Make a casual date for a brief meeting over lunch or coffee. Show up looking your best and do NOT get emotional or come across as needy. You want to show him you are strong, confident and not desperate to be with him. Keep the conversation light, friendly and don't get too personal. Leave him wanting more. Even a boyfriend break up can survive if you truly love each other.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;These methods can get you a long way if you want to get ex back after boyfriend break up.&lt;/span&gt; Don't blow it by going too fast, make sure and keep your cool.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Want to make sure you don't blow it? Check out the&lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt; &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;magic of making up site&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; to get a step-by-step plan that offers real help in getting your ex back.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;script src="http://forms.aweber.com/form/63/245341363.js" type="text/javascript"&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4691512935147628295-6504267685805488122?l=make-upmagic.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/feeds/6504267685805488122/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4691512935147628295&amp;postID=6504267685805488122' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/6504267685805488122'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/6504267685805488122'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/2009/02/boyfriend-break-up-what-can-i-do-to-get.html' title='Boyfriend Break Up What Can I Do to Get Ex Back?'/><author><name>Carrie J.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10963563740039165650</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Ewv8HE1srjY/SabCclOXhGI/AAAAAAAAAGs/E3imiO0HVSE/s72-c/couple+beach.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4691512935147628295.post-3680670461083979447</id><published>2008-11-12T11:29:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-01-11T17:18:50.640-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='get ex boyfriend back'/><title type='text'>How to Get My Ex Back When He Has Moved On</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Ewv8HE1srjY/SWqaW0btQLI/AAAAAAAAAFw/7t4XZk_OeSo/s1600-h/sunsetCoupleSQ.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 320px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Ewv8HE1srjY/SWqaW0btQLI/AAAAAAAAAFw/7t4XZk_OeSo/s320/sunsetCoupleSQ.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5290210429122724018" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Has your boyfriend left you and now you are left asking "how to get my ex back when he's moved on"?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You don't have to mope around feeling like you've lost him forever because that may not be the case. There are some things that you can be doing right now to help get your ex back, even if he is dating another woman and doesn't seem to be interested in you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;1) Your first tip to getting your boyfriend back is to convince him that he really does want you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are several things you can use to gain his interest unless he really and truly wants nothing to do with you at all.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;2) One of the most effective tactics you can use is to just be his friend.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A good friend that he can get along with that doesn't cause any emotional scenes. Show that you understand him and have fun and joke around together. Allow time for all the emotional stress and drama surrounding your breakup have died done and he might realize that he wants to get back together with you again.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;3) When you talk to your ex, be sweet and easy to talk to, but play a bit hard to get.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Having a bit of an attitude can show him that you are not ready to fall into his arms just because he crooks his little finger. Just being a bit out of his reach may make him want you all the more, you know like wanting what you can't have.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;4) Even though you are playing hard to get make sure he knows that you are available.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While it's ok to flirt and hang out with other friends, males included, don't overdo it. While a bit of jealously may be all right, you don't want to totally discourage him by making him think that you are not available.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;5)Do not act desperate - it will kill his interest.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You will seem weak and pitiful and not appealing. You want to attract him, not repel him. Play it cool and act like what happened is ok and that you are ready to move on. This will intrigue him and get his interest.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;6) Another trick - if you catch him looking at you or you feel like he is, then look at him out the corner of your eye.&lt;/b&gt; This is kind of  showing him that you notice, but you appear mysterious and out of reach at the same time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;7) Once in awhile, reminisce about some of the good times that the two of you had together.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thinking about the closeness you had and how good you were together can only help make him long for things to be the way they used to be. Just avoid bringing up any bad memories, they will only hurt your cause.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;These tips are just the beginning ones to win your ex back.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;They are also the first steps I followed when I lost the love of my life. And truthfully, they aren't my own ideas. I turned to T 'Dub' Jackson when I had just didn't know what to do to or how to get my lover back.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;T 'Dub' wrote a complete, step by step plan that anyone can understand called "The Magic Of Making Up".&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;It certainly worked like magic for me and my partner. Now we are more in love than ever and have a better and more passionate relationship. 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Take heart in realizing that breakups aren’t always permanent, you may know someone who’s gotten back together with their ex. Usually the relationship is stronger after they get back together.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are signs you can look for to show if your ex boyfriend still cares about you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Has your ex boyfriend said he wants to still be friends?&lt;/span&gt; If so, take that as a good sign! That indicates that he still has feelings for you. What it can mean for you is a chance to get closer to him and maybe someday become a pair again.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;If your ex is texting you or phoning you, emailing you or any other form of contact you can take this as a sign that he still has feelings for you.&lt;/span&gt; Notice how often he does it and you may begin to see a pattern, which means it’s important to him.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;When you talk to your ex on a regular basis and he says that he misses you&lt;/span&gt;. At some level he is missing the sharing and close times he had with you and is looking to see if you also miss him. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;He doesn’t avoid you completely when he sees you.&lt;/span&gt; Even just saying a polite, “hello, how are you is a good thing and shows he still has some interest in you.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Your ex boyfriend may even ask you if you are dating anyone.&lt;/span&gt; This is the time to answer honestly and not give into the impulse to make him jealous by pretending you’re going out with some wonderful guy. After all, your goal is not to drive him away.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Pay special attention to how he acts when he sees you&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He may seem nervous around you and this should be encouraging to you. There are steps you can take to help him open up and things you should be doing to encourage his interest in the right way. So, if you are sensing that your ex boyfriend still has feelings for you, it’s important to have a plan in mind and act on it!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;"There's no reason you should sit there and feel miserable without your lover any longer. &lt;/span&gt;Learn more about how "The Magic of Making Up" can effectively get your ex back today. Join the thousands of happy couples who've already been reunited with the love of their lives. 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You think that you’d do anything to get your ex back, but are unsure and scared of how to go about it. Having a plan of action to take can help give you the confidence you need to get started.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Even though these steps may appear too simple or obvious, they really can change things around for the better.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These ideas will get your ex to notice you and realize that you aren’t moping around at home waiting for them to call. They will be intrigued and curious to find out more.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt; 1. Go out with friends and have fun for a night or two.&lt;/span&gt; This is good for you to loosen up and enjoy things again. People may very well mention to your ex that you’re taking the breakup pretty well.&lt;br /&gt;   &lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;  2. Keep up your appearance.&lt;/span&gt; When you take care of yourself, you can appear attractive and appealing. This may remind your ex of what attracted them to you in the first place.&lt;br /&gt;     &lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;3. Get some exercise.&lt;/span&gt; Again, you will look and feel better. Working out is good therapy when you are under stress and the mental pain of the breakup.&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt; 4. Stay away from your ex.&lt;/span&gt; That means no phone calls or text messaging or anything else for a month at least.  This step is really important in getting your ex to come back to you. It allows both of you time to cool down emotionally and let your ex start to miss you.&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt; 5. An apology works wonders.&lt;/span&gt; By apologizing to your ex they will feel like no matter what you are on their side. Of course, you have to mean it and come across that way or your ex won’t buy it. The point isn’t who was right and who was wrong, but that you are willing to admit that you aren’t perfect. They will feel like you understand them and are willing to support them even during what you two are going through.&lt;br /&gt;     &lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;6. A new hobby can distract your mind from your ex for awhile.&lt;/span&gt; You need a break mentally so you can rest your mind enough to think things through.  Distracting yourself by learning and doing something new is a great way to get this needed break.&lt;br /&gt;   &lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;  7. Plan!&lt;/span&gt; This is key to actually getting your ex back. You don’t want to appear like you are waffling back and forth and don’t know your own mind. Taking the right steps will make you appear decisive and sure of yourself. Having a plan what to do next will help you stick with it if you don’t see the results you want right away.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;There's more ways than this to get your ex to come back to you and even ways to get them to chase you instead.&lt;/span&gt;   &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For them to work you've got to put yourself in the right mindset and know you're going to succeed. Not everyone succeeds in getting their ex back, but armed with these tips you've already increased your chances more than most people out there.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you're ready to get serious about winning your lover back, you should check out the ebook, &lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB "&gt;"Magic of Making Up"&lt;/a&gt; by T. Dubb Jackson. I wish it had been around when I was young and single - it would have saved me a lot of heartache. Check it out by following the link to:&lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB "&gt;Magic of Making Up&lt;/a&gt;and see how they have already helped thousands of lovers reunite!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;script type="text/javascript" src="http://forms.aweber.com/form/63/245341363.js"&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4691512935147628295-1422607636500003747?l=make-upmagic.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/feeds/1422607636500003747/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4691512935147628295&amp;postID=1422607636500003747' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/1422607636500003747'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/1422607636500003747'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/2008/11/scared-youll-never-get-your-ex-back-7.html' title='Scared You’ll Never Get Your Ex Back? 7 Steps To Take to Win Them Back'/><author><name>Carrie J.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10963563740039165650</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4691512935147628295.post-2614483166210968828</id><published>2008-11-02T20:48:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-14T21:59:02.317-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='get  ex back'/><title type='text'>What Is the #1 Thing You Can Do to Get Your Ex Back?</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Do you know what the most important thing you can do to get your ex back?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There really is one thing that will make the most difference. Believe me, I’ve learned from experience. It’s also something that I have to be willing to do whenever it’s needed to my husband of 32 years. It’s one of the keys to having a good relationship.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;The most important thing you can do to mend a break is apologize!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It’s certainly not as easy as it sounds. Whenever people have to say I’m sorry it is very humbling and difficult to do. It’s also what makes the most impact. I’m talking about a sincere, well thought out apology here.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;I know if you’ve recently broken up that you are still feeling hurt and may be too upset to really think things through.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Believe me, I’ve been there and there’s nothing I wouldn’t do to guarantee that I’ll never be there again! Sitting by the phone and waiting for him or her to call really won’t help, even though you may not feel like doing anything else right now.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Give yourself some time to heal – at least a month or so.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It’s going to be difficult too really get inside yourself and think things through rationally, which is what you need to do. The goal should be to figure out the problems in your relationship. You’ll need to know what you need to work on when you do get back together.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Now, to talk about the apology.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Once you have thought things through you should be able to clearly see where you were wrong. This is the time to focus on yourself and your problems, not your partners. Then you can think of exactly what and how to say you are sorry for. Your ex will be able to tell if you really mean it and it’s something you’ve given some thought to. Not just an I’m sorry, can I come back apology. When you do this you should feel better – it’s a relief to get things out. Probably your ex will want to admit some things on their part also.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Once you’ve done that you’ve got an excellent start on mending your relationship.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Remember not to push anything or ask for anything. This really is the most important thing you can do, so make sure you put the effort into it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There is a method you can follow if you want to mend your relationship. People are drawn to what makes them happy or brings them pleasure. They draw away from what causes them pain or discomfort. Learn how to make yourself attractive and desirable (not just physically), and you can take a big step towards making your ex want you back.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;There's no reason you should sit there and feel miserable without your lover any longer.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Click this link to learn more about how&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB%20"&gt;"The Magic of Making Up"&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; can effectively get your ex back today. Watch our free videos and join the thousands of happy couples who've already been reunited with the love of their lives. Visit us now at &lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB%20"&gt;Making Up.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;script type="text/javascript" src="http://forms.aweber.com/form/63/245341363.js"&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4691512935147628295-2614483166210968828?l=make-upmagic.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/feeds/2614483166210968828/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4691512935147628295&amp;postID=2614483166210968828' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/2614483166210968828'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/2614483166210968828'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/2008/11/what-is-1-thing-you-can-do-to-get-your.html' title='What Is the #1 Thing You Can Do to Get Your Ex Back?'/><author><name>Carrie J.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10963563740039165650</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4691512935147628295.post-348367435356326118</id><published>2008-10-24T21:11:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-11-02T18:48:47.781-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Video - 1st Steps to take after a breakup'/><title type='text'>1st Steps to Take After A Breakup - If You Want Your Ex Back</title><content type='html'>Listen to this video to find out the very first steps you want to take after a breakup, assuming you do want to get your ex back!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This video is by T. Dub Jackson who wrote the book, a&lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt;"The Magic of Making Up"&lt;/a&gt;  will give you some really good info that you can USE right now to help get your relationship back together.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/XBgWDiYYnxI&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;fs=1"&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/XBgWDiYYnxI&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Go to this &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;" href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt;site : The Magic of Making Up &lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;if you found this video helpful to find out more about getting you and your ex back together!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;script src="http://forms.aweber.com/form/63/245341363.js" type="text/javascript"&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4691512935147628295-348367435356326118?l=make-upmagic.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/feeds/348367435356326118/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4691512935147628295&amp;postID=348367435356326118' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/348367435356326118'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/348367435356326118'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/2008/08/1st-steps-to-take-after-breakup-if-you.html' title='1st Steps to Take After A Breakup - If You Want Your Ex Back'/><author><name>Carrie J.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10963563740039165650</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4691512935147628295.post-840056443484174918</id><published>2008-10-22T16:17:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-11-14T21:26:28.374-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Deal with a break up'/><title type='text'>How to Deal With a Break Up and Get to the Making Up!</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Have you experienced the pain of having to deal with a break up? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I know firsthand how miserable it is. You would do just about anything to be able to make up. Unfortunately, most of us go about getting our ex back totally the wrong way.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;It helps to have a little insight into the mind of your ex.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, it’s usually such a devastating blow that we can’t think straight, let alone figure out what it is that our partner wants. We react irrationally and go a little crazy. Let me explain what I mean.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Your ex has said that they “want some space” or words to that effect.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That usually upsets us so much that space is the last thing we want to give them. I remember going through some heartbreaks of my own before I got married and feeling panicky and not knowing what to do. What usually happens is that we start calling up our ex lovers multiple times a day and leaving constant messages. Or it may be text messaging or emailing, or a combination of those. Either way, our ex gets annoyed and ends up withdrawing further away from us.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;You need to back off and stop pestering them. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We really need to respect their request for space. It may be really hard but you need to back off and stop pestering them. You have to tell yourself that this is your best chance at getting them to want to see or speak to you in the future. A month, at least is recommended so that your emotions can calm down and both of you can start thinking and acting rationally. After a whole month without contact, you may find that your ex really does miss you and is open to talking again.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;What to do when you meet again:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Make sure that when you do talk to them you know what to say. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Make them feel like you are on the same page as they are.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Agree with their reasons for breaking up – major points for this!&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Apologize sincerely for what you did wrong – without placing any blame on them!&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Have some ideas ready for how to make some changes to make things better.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Your ex will likely be most pleasantly surprised if you are able to do those things.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is the way to move from wondering how to deal with a break up and get to the making up. You should impress your ex with your sincerity and desire to commit to changes.  It's important to have a solid plan to follow so you don't blow things.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Are you tired of feeling miserable without your ex? &lt;/span&gt;Learn more about a plan that you can follow to effectively get your ex back today. Join the thousands of happy couples who've already been reunited with the love of their lives. 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	mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; 	mso-style-noshow:yes; 	mso-style-priority:99; 	mso-style-qformat:yes; 	mso-style-parent:""; 	mso-padding-alt:0in 5.4pt 0in 5.4pt; 	mso-para-margin-top:0in; 	mso-para-margin-right:0in; 	mso-para-margin-bottom:10.0pt; 	mso-para-margin-left:0in; 	line-height:115%; 	mso-pagination:widow-orphan; 	font-size:11.0pt; 	font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif"; 	mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; 	mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; 	mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"; 	mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; 	mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; 	mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;} &lt;/style&gt; &lt;![endif]--&gt;    &lt;p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Do you wish that you knew the secret to what your ex boyfriend wants?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;Breaking up makes us think that we’ll never understand them. I know when my boyfriend broke up with me I just didn’t get it. After all, I loved him more than anything, what else could he want? Well, I’ve since learned the hard way what he did want, and I believe you can use it the way I did to get my ex boyfriend back.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;After we’ve been in a relationship for awhile we start to take things for granted.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;We don’t exactly act the same way we did when we first met them and started dating. Can you remember how much interest you showed in everything they were interested in in those days? I mean, my boyfriend was really into playing basketball, which really wasn’t my thing. But I was so enamored of him, I would shoot hoops with him, go to the gym and watch him and cheer for him. I can guarantee you that he appreciated all my interest! Ask yourself what you remember about your early days together. Did your ex feel appreciated by you then?&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Men love to be admired.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;If they feel like you think they’re the greatest, they are happy campers! &lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Ask yourself if you’ve gotten into a rut and stopped working on the things that made your lover happy. As human beings we tend to be basically selfish and think about our own desires most of the time. We lose some of that focus we had on our partner’s needs to be admired and appreciated.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Sometimes it takes a slap in the face, like being dumped to wake us up.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;" class="MsoNormal"&gt; It’s time to evaluate where you went wrong. If you want our ex to listen to us and take you seriously you have to be willing to admit it. If you are able to sincerely apologize to your ex you may be surprised how quickly their attitude changes! &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Most likely they will be really shocked that you opened yourself up that way&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;I’m not just talking about a general “I’m sorry, can we get back together” scenario. You need to be genuine and talk about some specific things you did wrong. This is powerful and can go a long way towards getting your ex to unbend towards you. You can clear the air and open up the discussion of how to improve your relationship.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Nine times out of ten this will start you on the road to reconciliation.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;" class="MsoNormal"&gt;You shouldn’t panic if it doesn’t get you back with them right away. I recently reviewed a new book about mending relationships that I think may do the trick for you in getting your ex to want you back.&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"&gt;This is the book I wish had I could have read when I was young and single. It would have saved me a lot of grief. If you are serious about getting your ex back, then you should read my review of the &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://winyourexbacktoday.blogspot.com"&gt;“Magic of Making Up”&lt;/a&gt; here&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4691512935147628295-5176047132445097530?l=make-upmagic.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/feeds/5176047132445097530/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4691512935147628295&amp;postID=5176047132445097530' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/5176047132445097530'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/5176047132445097530'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/2008/10/how-do-i-get-my-ex-boyfriend-back-by.html' title='How Do I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back? By Learning His Secret Desires!'/><author><name>Carrie J.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10963563740039165650</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4691512935147628295.post-8840448247243039709</id><published>2008-10-20T15:32:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-10-27T15:56:09.479-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Should you take your ex back?'/><title type='text'>Should You Get Back Together With Your Ex?</title><content type='html'>I have had a lot of people ask if they should get back together with their ex. Well, my friend you are the one who is most qualified to answer that. What seems to be most confusing is that after a breakup everyone involved is running on their emotions. It's almost impossible to think straight and decisions made at that time are often a mistake.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You should take a few weeks to a month to think things through, possibly longer if you still have trouble thinking rationally. You can only really do this successfully if you have no contact with your ex during this time. You need to consider the question of whether or not you really want to get back together with your ex.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's easy to fall into the trap of telling yourself that you love them so much you'll never be happy without them. That is not usually true and people do go on with their lives and fall in love again after breakups. Sometimes there are very good reasons &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;NOT&lt;/span&gt; to get back together. For example, if your ex is physically or emotionally abusive. Realize that you are a valuable person and deserve to be treated kindly and with respect.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You should consider what the negatives were in your relationship and what could be done to fix them. If your ex lover is not interested in making changes, you are just asking for trouble. Most likely, whatever faults they have are not going to just go away. If they won't keep a job and contribute to the bills now then that will continue to be a problem if you get back together. If they drink excessively, they're not likely to stop just because you agree to take them back.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Again, you are the one who knows best what their problems are. Some people will promise to do anything if you will take them back, but those promises are empty ones that will be broken. Don't make the mistake of taking someone back over and over just because you &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;really&lt;/span&gt; want to believe them! It's much smarter to make them prove that they will stop or start something that has been a problem &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;before&lt;/span&gt; you get back together.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you see a lot of positives in your relationship then you may decide it's worth it to try again. Set some clear guidelines and take things&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; slowly&lt;/span&gt; - for both your sakes. A good relationship requires work and commitment on both sides.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;script type="text/javascript" src="http://forms.aweber.com/form/63/245341363.js"&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4691512935147628295-8840448247243039709?l=make-upmagic.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/feeds/8840448247243039709/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4691512935147628295&amp;postID=8840448247243039709' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/8840448247243039709'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/8840448247243039709'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/2008/10/should-you-get-back-together-with-your.html' title='Should You Get Back Together With Your Ex?'/><author><name>Carrie J.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10963563740039165650</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4691512935147628295.post-5076933643483429272</id><published>2008-10-11T21:28:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-11-14T21:40:23.424-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Get ex back'/><title type='text'>Simple 5 Step Guide To Get Your Ex Back!</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;Wouldn’t it be great if you had a guide to follow to get your ex back?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Most of the time after you break up you will be too upset to think things through. People tend to do all the wrong things to get back with their ex and end up driving them away. It’s miserable being dumped and usually we do a lot of crazy things.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;You need to have a cool head and take the steps that will bring the two of you together again.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That’s why I made this guide to help those of you who will do whatever it takes to get back with your ex.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;5 Step Guide to Get Your Ex Back:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt; 1. Figure out what was wrong.&lt;/span&gt; Obviously something happened to make your ex break it off. You may know exactly what it was or it may take some soul searching.  Whether it was an argument or a series of things, if you don’t know the problem, you can’t fix it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     &lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;2. Have no contact for a month&lt;/span&gt;. While a month feel like forever to you, you really need that time apart from your ex. Both of you need time to process things and let your emotions die down so you can think rationally. The other reason for no contact is that you ex lover will most likely miss you and think about you. You want to give them breathing space so they can do this.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     &lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;3. Write a letter to your ex.&lt;/span&gt; The letter is an effective tool to say what you want without having any confrontation. In the letter you should apologize if you’ve been bugging them a lot and let them know you just went a bit nuts. Tell them you’ve had time to realize that they were right in breaking up with you, you think it’s a good idea! You can even go so far as to say that you had been considering it for awhile. You don’t need to go into detail, believe me, that’s enough! It definitely won’t be what they are expecting. You will be surprised how it can change their thinking about you and realize that you just might not come running back.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     &lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;4. Give a thoughtful and sincere apology.&lt;/span&gt; When your month of no contact has gone by and you are feeling more in control of yourself, you need to have an apology ready. Just think of something that you know you need to say I’m sorry for, and can be sincere about it. Even if you’re thinking, it’s partly their fault, that should be put aside for now. A real apology will clear the air and actually be a relief to you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;     &lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;5. Do not use the word “but” in your apology!&lt;/span&gt; The word “but” should definitely not be said! Your apology may be going along nicely and then you say “but” and it’s downhill from there. Saying that switches the blame that you need to take to them, and that will put their back up, and most likely start an argument. So far from clearing the air and making things right, you’ll cause further damage and come across as insincere. Be sincere and have your apology well thought out and you can make some real progress. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;By following these steps you may be surprised at how much good response you’ll get from your ex.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Keep it mind that people do make up every day. Most important is to be cool, calm and not try to hurry things along. You don’t want to rush things and undo all the good you’ve done by following the 5 steps to get your ex back.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One of the best materials I’ve ever read about mending relationships is the &lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB "&gt;Magic of Making &lt;/a&gt;Up by T. Dubb Jackson. If you want a step-by-step guide to effectively get your ex back, check it out. Join the thousands they have helped reuinte with their lovers by following this link to the &lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB "&gt;"Magic of Making Up" &lt;/a&gt;site now!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;script type="text/javascript" src="http://forms.aweber.com/form/63/245341363.js"&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4691512935147628295-5076933643483429272?l=make-upmagic.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/feeds/5076933643483429272/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4691512935147628295&amp;postID=5076933643483429272' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/5076933643483429272'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/5076933643483429272'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/2008/10/simple-5-step-guide-to-get-your-ex-back.html' title='Simple 5 Step Guide To Get Your Ex Back!'/><author><name>Carrie J.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10963563740039165650</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4691512935147628295.post-5542783341666155596</id><published>2008-10-10T20:26:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-11-14T21:59:31.742-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Get ex back'/><title type='text'>3 Easy to Follow Tips to Win Your Ex Back Today</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;You may feel like there’s nothing you can do to win your ex back.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don’t give up, I’m going to give you some tips you can work on to get them back.  Tips that will disarm your ex and have them wondering why they broke up with you in the first place. I’ve been there and made a lot of the same mistakes that most people make after their partner breaks up with them. I had to learn the hard way. Let’s see what you can do that will really change your ex’s mind.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;To begin with, don’t let your emotions control you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A common mistake that I made and most make that have recently been dumped is to continuously call or text your ex. This is super annoying to your ex and will only drive them further away from you. Some people even watch their house hoping to get to see their ex. This is about the worst thing you can do. You need to get control of this behavior and stop harassing your ex. You goal should be to miss you and not be looking to avoid you!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Next, go out and have some fun!&lt;/span&gt; Be seen by your friends (and your mutual friends out enjoying yourself). An even better idea is to go out on some dates. You may actually find yourself having fun with someone who is not your ex! This will bother your ex when they see that you are actually going on with your life without them. Even though they broke up with you, they won’t expect this and it will actually make you more appealing to them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Finally, ask your ex to meet with you for a brief visit, like at a coffee shop or other public place.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If it’s in public, it tends to not get too emotional. The idea of this meeting is to apologize. If you are honest with yourself, you can surely come up with something that you can apologize for. Just be sincere and this usually works so well that your ex will be extremely open and willing to discuss getting back together with you!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If things don’t happen the way you want right away, don’t give up! I just recently read a great book on the subject and you can check it out here: &lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt;“The Magic of Making Up”&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt; &lt;/a&gt;here. I really think it can help you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To win your ex back you just need a solid, common sense plan that works.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Following a plan of action that uses common sense instead of following your emotions really will help you get your ex back. &lt;/span&gt;Find out how to get them to return your phone calls, and other tips here:&lt;a href="http://http//oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt; &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Make Up Magic&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4691512935147628295-5542783341666155596?l=make-upmagic.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/feeds/5542783341666155596/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4691512935147628295&amp;postID=5542783341666155596' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/5542783341666155596'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/5542783341666155596'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/2008/11/3-easy-to-follow-tips-to-win-your-ex.html' title='3 Easy to Follow Tips to Win Your Ex Back Today'/><author><name>Carrie J.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10963563740039165650</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4691512935147628295.post-380156167692547363</id><published>2008-10-05T14:15:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-10-28T11:35:14.121-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ex wants you back'/><title type='text'>Does Your Ex Want You Back? 12 Signs That Say They Do!</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Ewv8HE1srjY/SNHzPsQGfrI/AAAAAAAAAEw/JuRHj0XQNaM/s1600-h/couple+beach.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Ewv8HE1srjY/SNHzPsQGfrI/AAAAAAAAAEw/JuRHj0XQNaM/s320/couple+beach.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5247242491765620402" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What are the signs that your ex wants you back? It’s hard to tell, especially when you’re feeling very emotional and unsure of things after you broke up. There are some signs that show your ex is still interested in you if watch out for them!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Calls you up, just to say hello – they miss talking with you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. Says they want to be friends – they want to leave opportunities open.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. Asks your friends questions about you – they are wanting to know what&lt;br /&gt;you are up to and how you are taking things.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. Give’s an ok to call them – want line of communication open.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. Find them watching you – they can’t keep their eyes off you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6. Acts friendly when you meet – they want you to think well of them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7. Give you compliments – shows interest in your look, clothes, etc.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;8. Asks you if you are dating anyone – want to know if you are still available.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;9. They are not dating anyone – not ready to get involved with someone else.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;10. Tries to get you to notice them – looking for your attention.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;11. Keeps bumping into you – big sign of interest, especially if it happens&lt;br /&gt;several times.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;12. Brags about themselves – wants to attract you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These are some of the signals you should be on the lookout for. Hopefully you will take some time and think of what needs to be changed in your relationship. If you get back together, you will want things to be better and stronger than before. Seeing a positive change in you will do a lot to get your ex’s attention. Watch for the signs that your ex wants you back, and take action!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you are serious about getting your ex back you owe it to yourself to read the &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt;“Magic of Making Up” &lt;/a&gt;by T Dub Jackson. He outlines a plan of action that really works in getting relationship back together. You’ll shake your head at his advice and wonder why you didn’t think of that. The problem is that after you break up you’re so emotional about it that you can’t think clearly and just act out of desperation. This is the worst thing you can do. I recommend reading this book and trying the tactics laid out, they really do work.&lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt; &lt;/a&gt;&lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt;Go here to check it out.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;script type="text/javascript" src="http://forms.aweber.com/form/63/245341363.js"&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4691512935147628295-380156167692547363?l=make-upmagic.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/feeds/380156167692547363/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4691512935147628295&amp;postID=380156167692547363' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/380156167692547363'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/380156167692547363'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/2008/09/does-your-ex-want-you-back-12-signs.html' title='Does Your Ex Want You Back? 12 Signs That Say They Do!'/><author><name>Carrie J.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10963563740039165650</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Ewv8HE1srjY/SNHzPsQGfrI/AAAAAAAAAEw/JuRHj0XQNaM/s72-c/couple+beach.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4691512935147628295.post-6826070363926128185</id><published>2008-10-04T22:25:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-10-28T11:35:44.598-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Get ex back'/><title type='text'>Want to Get Your Ex Back? Try These Mind Tricks!</title><content type='html'>It's easy for you to figure out what you are thinking and feeling. When your ex walked out you felt heartbroken, betrayed and miserable. It leaves you feeling like you won't ever be happy again.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What about your ex? It's not easy being the "bad guy", the one who had to break it off. Even if your ex lover felt justified in saying goodbye that doesn't mean they feel good about it. After all, if they loved you then they still have strong feelings and emotions concerning you. They don't like thinking about the fact that they broke your heart and it makes them miserable and upset.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Their feelings about you are painful for them right now and they tend to want to avoid you. When something is painful, people draw away from it. The best thing you can do is to give them the space that they need. Stop calling them up or emailing or text messaging. Don't contact them for several weeks or a month, at least.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You want them to wonder why they haven't heard from you. They expect you to be thinking about them all the time and calling them. When you stop, you turn the tables. You are now in a position of power and when you do call they will want to talk to you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You want your ex to think that they can't just have you back whenever they crook their little fingers. People really fight for what seems to be slipping out of their grasp. You can really get them to change their thinking if they think you are leaving them!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When you've decided that it's time to call them, you should have a solid plan of what you want to say. The last thing you want to do is lose control and blow the advantage that you've gained. There are techniques you need to use when you see or talk to them next.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;It's important that follow the right steps if you want to be successful. A step-by-step program that has proven to work is called the &lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB" onmouseout="window.status='';return true" onmouseover="window.status='Magic of Making Up';return true"&gt;Magic of Making Up&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt; - click here to see&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt;.&lt;/a&gt; You can watch some videos for more ideas on what to do there.  A complete plan is what you need if you want to get your ex back.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4691512935147628295-6826070363926128185?l=make-upmagic.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/feeds/6826070363926128185/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4691512935147628295&amp;postID=6826070363926128185' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/6826070363926128185'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/6826070363926128185'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/2008/10/want-to-get-your-ex-back-try-these-mind.html' title='Want to Get Your Ex Back? 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The 3 Top Reasons!</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Your ex girlfriend dumped you and you just don’t know the reason why.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That’s why you decided to read this article, because you just can’t figure out what went wrong. This hopefully will give you a little insight on why people break up and you may find that one of these describes your circumstances.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;1.Your ex girlfriend felt unappreciated.&lt;/span&gt; It is important for everybody in a relationship to have feelings that they are appreciated. For whatever reason, your ex may not have felt good about herself when she was with you. If you weren’t able to make her feel special, most likely she’s looking for someone who will.&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;2.You got lazy and got into a rut.&lt;/span&gt; The beginning of most relationships start out with a lot of excitement and fun. Learning all about each other is an adventure of discovery. After awhile people become used to each other and tend to get into a rut that can lead to boredom. Your ex girlfriend may have become dissatisfied with this and decided it wasn’t what she wanted.&lt;br /&gt;    &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;3.Arguing all the time.&lt;/span&gt; This is definitely one of the main things that causes people to break up. People can’t tolerate that situation forever. Your arguments most likely mean that there are things that you need to clear up and resolve. Little misunderstandings left unresolved have a way of magnifying themselves into big problems that will cause a rift.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;If one or more of these reasons applies to your situation then you have a better idea why your ex girlfriend dumped you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What’s important next is that you work on fixing it. Once your ex sees that you care enough to try and fix it you could be on your way to getting your ex back.&lt;br /&gt;You will need a good plan to get her attention and show her that things can be different.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;People are drawn to what brings them pleasure and withdraw from what is painful or uncomfortable.&lt;/span&gt; Work on making yourself attractive (not just physically) to your girlfriend and you will be well on your way to winning her back.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;There's no reason you should sit there and feel miserable without your lover any longer.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Click this link to learn more about how "The Magic of Making Up" can effectively &lt;a href="http://www.winyourexbacktoday.blogspot.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;get your ex back&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/a&gt; today. Watch our free videos and join the thousands of happy couples who've already been reunited with the love of their lives. Visit us now at &lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt; &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Make Up Magic&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt;!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;script type="text/javascript" src="http://forms.aweber.com/form/63/245341363.js"&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4691512935147628295-1049843313012262265?l=make-upmagic.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/feeds/1049843313012262265/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4691512935147628295&amp;postID=1049843313012262265' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/1049843313012262265'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/1049843313012262265'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/2008/10/want-to-know-why-your-ex-girlfriend.html' title='Want To Know Why Your Ex Girlfriend Dumped You? 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You may end up causing even more&lt;br /&gt;damage to your relationship that way.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the book, &lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt;the Magic of Making Up&lt;/a&gt;, you will find&lt;br /&gt;a complete strategy. So, if you think the message to&lt;br /&gt;leave your ex is one you feel like you could try, you&lt;br /&gt;should definitely check out the book and have planned&lt;br /&gt;what to do next!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;****************&lt;br /&gt;What NOT to Say!&lt;br /&gt;****************&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Before we get into the actual words, let's&lt;br /&gt;go over what message almost NEVER&lt;br /&gt;works.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;and worse...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These usually fall into 2 categories.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd&lt;br /&gt;time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And the EMERGENCY-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me&lt;br /&gt;as soon as you get this."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, I think you can see what is wrong with&lt;br /&gt;both of those approaches?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, I won't go on and on...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;************************************&lt;br /&gt;How To Use Curiosity &amp;amp; Self Interest&lt;br /&gt;To Your Advantage&lt;br /&gt;***********************************&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Two of the most powerful forces in&lt;br /&gt;the human mind are&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;*Curiosity &amp;amp;&lt;br /&gt;*Self Interest&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And here's the BIG SECRET!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When you combine the two, you&lt;br /&gt;have a recipe that WILL work 'magic'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let's look at what you can say&lt;br /&gt;that works nearly EVERY TIME.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In a friendly tone:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let&lt;br /&gt;you know I appreciate what you did for&lt;br /&gt;me. Call me because I want to thank you&lt;br /&gt;in person."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity&lt;br /&gt;and self interest?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?"&lt;br /&gt;"What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And&lt;br /&gt;he feels good because it is a positive message.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Before you call you need to do the&lt;br /&gt;"Set Up"...which is figuring out what&lt;br /&gt;he/she did that you appreciate.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It can be any small thing...but needs to&lt;br /&gt;be believable.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But more importantly...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;************&lt;br /&gt;2nd WARNING!&lt;br /&gt;************&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Please have an underlying strategy&lt;br /&gt;like you will find laid out in the&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://viralurl.com/oregongal/Making-Up"&gt;Magic Of Making Up System&lt;/a&gt; BEFORE you call.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;your&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you apply this technique with&lt;br /&gt;no underlying strategy and they&lt;br /&gt;call you back you can do more&lt;br /&gt;DAMAGE than good if you do not&lt;br /&gt;handle it correctly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Okay?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What I am saying is...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What you do before, during and&lt;br /&gt;after you get them to return your&lt;br /&gt;call is MORE important than getting&lt;br /&gt;them to return your call.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Make sense?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Have a PLAN!&lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt;More details here!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;your&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/your&gt;&lt;/your&gt;&lt;/pre&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;script src="http://forms.aweber.com/form/63/245341363.js" type="text/javascript"&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4691512935147628295-7064368724473962541?l=make-upmagic.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/feeds/7064368724473962541/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4691512935147628295&amp;postID=7064368724473962541' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/7064368724473962541'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/7064368724473962541'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/2008/08/how-to-get-your-ex-to-return-your-phone.html' title='How To Get Your Ex To Return Your Phone Call'/><author><name>Carrie J.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10963563740039165650</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Ewv8HE1srjY/SLyxQNC6keI/AAAAAAAAABY/PyB7eLH1tpo/s72-c/th_oie_couple.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4691512935147628295.post-3306630074365505194</id><published>2008-09-17T22:59:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-10-28T13:30:57.686-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Have a successful marriage'/><title type='text'>Thinking of Tying The Knot? 5 Tips To Make Sure You Stay Together</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://oregongal.couples.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=1000WEB"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.questionsforcouples.com/1000Questions_3.gif" width="122" border="0" height="175" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Did you know that love does NOT conquer all?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You see, often people get married with the idea&lt;br /&gt;that their “chemistry” or undying love for each&lt;br /&gt;other will keep them together forever.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, with almost 50% of marriages ending in&lt;br /&gt;divorce these days, it’s obvious that this isn’t&lt;br /&gt;the case. Therefore, it pays to know a few little&lt;br /&gt;secrets before getting married.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here are 5 tips that help keep couples together&lt;br /&gt;long after tying the knot:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;TIP#1 -- CONTINUE DATING&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Over the years, people often drift apart or&lt;br /&gt;relationships and marriages become stale because&lt;br /&gt;couples fail to do new and special things together.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That's why going on new and refreshing dates is so&lt;br /&gt;important. In fact, there is something about&lt;br /&gt;“dating” that creates a sense of magic in a&lt;br /&gt;relationship and can even bring relationships out&lt;br /&gt;of a rut.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While on a date, you also put more effort into your&lt;br /&gt;appearance, have more uninterrupted time to&lt;br /&gt;communicate on a deeper level and are naturally&lt;br /&gt;drawn closer together.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Stuck for ideas? Spend the day at the aquarium,&lt;br /&gt;zoo, museum, carnival, bookstore, beach or park.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;TIP#2 -- DELAY IS OFTEN BETTER&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It’s a well-documented statistic that couples who&lt;br /&gt;have dated for a year or longer before marriage&lt;br /&gt;have a significantly lower rate of divorce than&lt;br /&gt;those who married after a short dating period.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A year of dating gives time for many emotions to&lt;br /&gt;surface and many character traits to be discovered.&lt;br /&gt;You may adore someone in the spring, but despise&lt;br /&gt;him or her in the winter.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Asking someone for his or her hand in marriage on&lt;br /&gt;the third date isn't romantic. It's gambling.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;TIP#3 -- ALWAYS EXPRESS YOUR LOVE&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oftentimes, as a relationship matures, partners&lt;br /&gt;tend to stop praising each other because they&lt;br /&gt;'assume' their partner already knows what they're&lt;br /&gt;thinking.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When in reality, a day should never go by without&lt;br /&gt;you praising your partner. Compliment them on their&lt;br /&gt;cooking, reaffirm that they're the greatest person&lt;br /&gt;in the world or tell them they’re a wonderful role&lt;br /&gt;model. If you want to be loved and romanced by your&lt;br /&gt;sweetheart, love and romance them first. When&lt;br /&gt;they're feeling loved, it is much easier to love in&lt;br /&gt;return.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Are you a super supporter of what your mate does&lt;br /&gt;and says? So do you cheer them on and praise them&lt;br /&gt;constantly? Or do they constantly hear boos or&lt;br /&gt;silence?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;TIP#4 -- TAKE TIME TO UNDERSTAND YOUR PARTNER&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Couples with the most problems are often the ones&lt;br /&gt;that say, "I just don't understand him/her."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So let me ask you: How knowledgeable are you about&lt;br /&gt;your mate's profession or the degree they are&lt;br /&gt;pursuing? Do you know anything about his or her&lt;br /&gt;family heritage? Are you able to have a meaningful&lt;br /&gt;conversation about her cross-stitch hobby or his&lt;br /&gt;interest in rugby? If you are a man, do you fully&lt;br /&gt;understand what women experience during PMS or&lt;br /&gt;menopause?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You don't need to be identical, but make an effort&lt;br /&gt;to learn about the things that interest your&lt;br /&gt;partner in life and you'll grow closer as a result.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;TIP#5 -- ANSWER THE *BIG* QUESTIONS&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Does your partner want kids? Do you both want&lt;br /&gt;careers? Do they have a history of spending their&lt;br /&gt;way into debt? Do they go to church?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In my opinion, the biggest reason almost half of&lt;br /&gt;marriages end in divorce is because couples fail to&lt;br /&gt;ask each other the right questions BEFORE they get&lt;br /&gt;married.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I guess people think they'll be able to change&lt;br /&gt;their spouses after marriage and everything will be&lt;br /&gt;better. Wrong. If you fail to sit down and discuss&lt;br /&gt;finances, religion, sex, housing, your future, and&lt;br /&gt;other topics in great detail, you could end up with&lt;br /&gt;nothing but argument after argument for the rest of&lt;br /&gt;your days.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the end, if you both have completely different&lt;br /&gt;views, desires and goals in life, there’s no&lt;br /&gt;guarantee that chemistry or "I love you’s" will&lt;br /&gt;help you stay together.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Make it your utmost priority to understand each&lt;br /&gt;other 'inside-out' BEFORE you take that walk down&lt;br /&gt;the aisle.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;About the author:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Michael Webb is the author of &lt;a href="http://oregongal.couples.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=1000WEB"&gt;“1000 Questions For&lt;br /&gt;Couples"&lt;/a&gt; the most comprehensive book of questions&lt;br /&gt;that all couples should ask before getting married.&lt;br /&gt;Covering lovemaking, religion, careers, money,&lt;br /&gt;children &amp;amp; raising them, household work,&lt;br /&gt;personalities, the future and much much more.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4691512935147628295-3306630074365505194?l=make-upmagic.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/feeds/3306630074365505194/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4691512935147628295&amp;postID=3306630074365505194' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/3306630074365505194'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/3306630074365505194'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/2008/09/thinking-of-tying-knot-5-tips-to-make.html' title='Thinking of Tying The Knot? 5 Tips To Make Sure You Stay Together'/><author><name>Carrie J.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10963563740039165650</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4691512935147628295.post-2469835366228077224</id><published>2008-09-15T16:36:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-09-27T16:40:29.649-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='get over your ex'/><title type='text'>How To Stop Thinking About Your Ex</title><content type='html'>If break ups are tough on any part of you it's your mind. It's simply impossible to get your get out of your head. Everything you see and a lot of your surroundings only seem to remind you of them. Finding relief from these constant reminders can be difficult. You want to move on but find that it's an uphill battle with them everywhere in your thoughts and in what's around you. So how can you stop thinking about your ex if you want to get over them?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One of the first things you need to do is get away from wherever you've be hanging out all this time so you can experience life again. Get off your couch, out of your bedroom, out of the house, just get out and try and be sociable again. You'll probably find you need to make yourself have fun if it's a friendly outing, but the main purpose of doing this is to distract your mind from something other than your ex. Don't be shy about meeting new people either, they can really help ease the pain after a break up so you can move on.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now is that time to take up a new hobby or activity you've been putting off for so long. Learning something new will let your mind concentrate on doing it right and properly so your mind will be distracted as well. Physical activity has it's own way of working things out so if you chose to work out again it will go a bit further if distracting your thoughts than other activities. People commonly throw themselves into their work at this stage too. With their mind constantly on doing their job better they have less time to think about their ex. Slowly, but surely, time will make the pain go away as you continue to press forward.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There's a multitude of other ways to stop thinking about your ex out there. What's important is that you find one or two of them and take some action and do them. Until you find the will power to get out of the house, off of your computer, and back out into the world again you won't get be able to stop thinking about your ex.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4691512935147628295-2469835366228077224?l=make-upmagic.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/feeds/2469835366228077224/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4691512935147628295&amp;postID=2469835366228077224' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/2469835366228077224'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/2469835366228077224'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/2008/09/how-to-stop-thinking-about-your-ex-if.html' title='How To Stop Thinking About Your Ex'/><author><name>Carrie J.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10963563740039165650</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4691512935147628295.post-6739150252383155173</id><published>2008-09-11T14:47:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-06-13T23:04:49.397-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='5 Ways To Say I&apos;m sorry'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Get ex back'/><title type='text'>Wanting To Get Your Ex Back? – 5  Ways To Say I’m Sorry</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Ewv8HE1srjY/SNHy5oa-lUI/AAAAAAAAAEo/GxU6SLlQjg8/s1600-h/couple+beach+chair.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Ewv8HE1srjY/SNHy5oa-lUI/AAAAAAAAAEo/GxU6SLlQjg8/s320/couple+beach+chair.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5247242112780375362" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Are you miserable and wanting your ex back, if so you really need to be able to say "I'm sorry" and mean it! People don't always give enough credit to how powerful a sincere apology is toward mending a relationship. You may wonder why you should be the one to apologize when it takes two to argue? It really doesn't matter at this point, what you need to do now is wipe the slate clean.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After all, you are at least 50% responsible for the arguments and fights you had. Search yourself and you can surely find some things that you need to apologize for. Doing this right takes sincere effort on your part.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;5  Ways to make it impossible to resist your apology:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Be sincere&lt;/span&gt; - truly confess what you did that was wrong. An insincere apolgy is not worth anything. You will feel relief and likely a lot of the negative feelings between the two of you will start to dissolve.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Be prepared&lt;/span&gt; -  don’t rush into your apology. Think things through and have a plan for what you are going to say. Word things in a way that will make your ex realize that you put a lot of thought into your apology.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Never say “but”&lt;/span&gt; – This word is used when you want to put part of the blame on someone else. Don't undo what good you have done up to this point by trying to shift the blame.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;No arguing &lt;/span&gt;– If your ex has trouble accepting your apology right away, don’t argue about it. You did break up and they need some time to make sure you mean it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Make positive changes &lt;/span&gt;– Follow up your apology with working on changing your negative behaviors. You need to take action to show that your words meant something.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Really try hard to convince your ex that you are on their side, which is the whole meaning of the apology. You should agree with their decision to break up and let them know you want to work on the problems. This can make a real difference when they think you take their concerns seriously. If you've been afraid to make a move, don't wait any longer to make a sincere apology. It may end up being the key to getting your ex back.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Learn what moves are the "right" moves that will trigger the response you want from your ex. Don't blow it by acting on emotions alone, follow a plan of action designed to get your ex back. Find out the steps you need to follow in the &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt;Magic of Making Up system. It has a solid plan that has been proven to work. &lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt;Find out more about it here!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;script type="text/javascript" src="http://forms.aweber.com/form/63/245341363.js"&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4691512935147628295-6739150252383155173?l=make-upmagic.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/feeds/6739150252383155173/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4691512935147628295&amp;postID=6739150252383155173' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/6739150252383155173'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/6739150252383155173'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/2008/09/wanting-to-get-your-ex-back-5-ways-to.html' title='Wanting To Get Your Ex Back? – 5  Ways To Say I’m Sorry'/><author><name>Carrie J.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10963563740039165650</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Ewv8HE1srjY/SNHy5oa-lUI/AAAAAAAAAEo/GxU6SLlQjg8/s72-c/couple+beach+chair.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4691512935147628295.post-1988049578209782503</id><published>2008-09-08T22:05:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-10-28T11:38:57.720-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Testimonials'/><title type='text'>How Can You Get Your Man Or Your Girl Back?</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Ewv8HE1srjY/SLyw3mZlDuI/AAAAAAAAABQ/YrI6kbTx-ME/s1600-h/th_HUGS+pic+cart.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Ewv8HE1srjY/SLyw3mZlDuI/AAAAAAAAABQ/YrI6kbTx-ME/s320/th_HUGS+pic+cart.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5241258535599541986" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you've recently broke up with your ex, you are probably trying to find out how to get your man or your girl back. I've been there and I know how desperate you can get and how easy it is to get crazy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The pleading phone calls and text messages only annoy your ex and push them further away. But it's SO hard to get a grip, let alone figure out what will make them want to listen to you.&lt;br /&gt;was one of the pleading, tearful dumped ones until I heard about a plan of action that totally turned my behavior around.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This plan of action comes from the book, &lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt;"The Magic of Making Up"&lt;/a&gt; by T Dub Jackson. Believe me, it feels like magic when it works! I want you to see this video of other people who tried his plan and how it worked for them - don't just take my word for it!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/DqEa0IBovLU&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;fs=1"&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/DqEa0IBovLU&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There's more info about this book here:&lt;a href="http://viralurl.com/oregongal/Making-Up"&gt;The Magic of Making Up&lt;/a&gt;, along with other free tips. You really need to check this out if you want to get your man or your girl back!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;script src="http://forms.aweber.com/form/63/245341363.js" type="text/javascript"&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4691512935147628295-1988049578209782503?l=make-upmagic.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/feeds/1988049578209782503/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4691512935147628295&amp;postID=1988049578209782503' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/1988049578209782503'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/1988049578209782503'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/2008/08/how-can-you-get-your-man-or-your-girl.html' title='How Can You Get Your Man Or Your Girl Back?'/><author><name>Carrie J.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10963563740039165650</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Ewv8HE1srjY/SLyw3mZlDuI/AAAAAAAAABQ/YrI6kbTx-ME/s72-c/th_HUGS+pic+cart.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4691512935147628295.post-3865499022230058255</id><published>2008-09-07T18:52:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-10-28T13:20:11.470-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips on What NOT to Do'/><title type='text'>5 Things NOT To Do If You Want To Get Your Ex Back</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Ewv8HE1srjY/SLy2Rpm3sVI/AAAAAAAAABo/hJhMjvNyGgQ/s1600-h/bear+hug.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Ewv8HE1srjY/SLy2Rpm3sVI/AAAAAAAAABo/hJhMjvNyGgQ/s320/bear+hug.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5241264480695333202" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There’s lots of us who’ve been part of a breakup and much of the time all you can think about is how to get your man or ex-girlfriend back. Feeling miserable and doing crazy things by acting on emotions can be a big mistake. Let’s look at some of things people do when they are dumped and why they cause more problems with their ex and drive them further away.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;Calling, texting or emailing several times a day. These mostly end up in pleading or crying and annoy your ex. They will push you even further away. Right after a breakup one of the most important things to do is give your ex some space and time away from you.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Apologizing for everything and promising to do whatever they want if they’ll just take you back. Comes across as insincere and only wanting your way.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Losing your cool whenever you see or speak to them. You’re certainly not       attracting them this way, only turning them off.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Crying and telling them how they are the love of your life and you can’t live without them. You appear weak and desperate, and people are not attracted to weakness.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt; Buttonholing your ex’s friends or family and pumping them for info or explaining why they should take you back. Again, you are not giving your ex any space and are only reinforcing the reasons they decided to break up with you.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I’m betting you could add to this list if you thought about it. So what should you do when you can’t think clearly and just want to get back together? You need a plan of action that really works and appeals to your ex on a totally different level than your frantic attempts to get their attention have done.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you are serious about getting your ex back you owe it to yourself to read the &lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt;“Magic of Making Up” &lt;/a&gt;by T Dub Jackson. He outlines a plan of action that really works in getting relationship back together. You’ll shake your head at his advice and wonder why you didn’t think of that. The problem is that after you break up you’re so emotional about it that you can’t think clearly and just act out of desperation. This is the worst thing you can do. I recommend reading this book and trying the tactics laid out, they really do work. Go&lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;here&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; to check it out.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;script src="http://forms.aweber.com/form/63/245341363.js" type="text/javascript"&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4691512935147628295-3865499022230058255?l=make-upmagic.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/feeds/3865499022230058255/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4691512935147628295&amp;postID=3865499022230058255' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/3865499022230058255'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/3865499022230058255'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/2008/08/5-things-not-to-do-if-you-want-to-get.html' title='5 Things NOT To Do If You Want To Get Your Ex Back'/><author><name>Carrie J.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10963563740039165650</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Ewv8HE1srjY/SLy2Rpm3sVI/AAAAAAAAABo/hJhMjvNyGgQ/s72-c/bear+hug.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4691512935147628295.post-8941833265465928321</id><published>2008-09-06T21:33:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-10-28T13:18:42.455-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='video - How To Get Your Ex Back'/><title type='text'>Wanting To Get Back With Your Ex? Don't Go Too Fast, You May Blow It!</title><content type='html'>Trying to get back with your ex? Planning a meeting? Listen to this to find out why you shouldn't move too fast!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/XofIY_Rg1aY&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;fs=1"&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/XofIY_Rg1aY&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Find out what the "system" is in &lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt;Magic of Making Up&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt;.&lt;/a&gt; If you're serious about getting back together with your ex you can't afford to pass this by, check it out here: &lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt;Magic of Making Up.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;script src="http://forms.aweber.com/form/63/245341363.js" type="text/javascript"&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4691512935147628295-8941833265465928321?l=make-upmagic.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/feeds/8941833265465928321/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4691512935147628295&amp;postID=8941833265465928321' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/8941833265465928321'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/8941833265465928321'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/2008/08/wanting-to-get-back-with-your-ex-dont.html' title='Wanting To Get Back With Your Ex? Don&apos;t Go Too Fast, You May Blow It!'/><author><name>Carrie J.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10963563740039165650</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4691512935147628295.post-8900589483142248506</id><published>2008-09-05T17:18:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-10-28T13:17:27.964-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='win back girlfriend'/><title type='text'>Win Back a Girlfriend By Finding Out What She Desires In A Man!</title><content type='html'>How do you win back a girlfriend when you don't even know why she left? The key is to understand your girl's needs are and how to fulfill them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You may have not noticed that something was missing in your relationship. At least you didn't realize things were bad enough that your girlfriend would want to leave. Women won’t always come out and tell you exactly what went wrong. She may say that you were busy all the time, didn't pay attention to her and didn't feel like you really loved her. Unfortunately that leaves most guys in the dark as to what to do.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Most men don't realize that women have a very deep need to feel appreciated. In fact, that is their consuming desire. Showing your appreciation for all the little things she does helps her feel loved. To make your ex feel that she's special you need to notice and acknowledge the things she does. She wants your attention and craves praise for her efforts. Think about all the things she does and start giving her credit for them. Whether it be cooking dinner or making dessert, dressing nicely, calling to hear your voice, cleaning the house or whatever – you get the picture?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Men who are able to make their women feel loved and needed by them are on the right track to a happy and stable relationship. Winning back a girlfriend that doesn't want to take your calls or give you another chance, calls for taking a special plan of action.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Read about a plan that really works and shows you a step by step method to get back with your ex in&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; &lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt;Magic of Making Up&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://oregongal.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=MAGICWEB"&gt;.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;script src="http://forms.aweber.com/form/63/245341363.js" type="text/javascript"&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4691512935147628295-8900589483142248506?l=make-upmagic.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/feeds/8900589483142248506/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4691512935147628295&amp;postID=8900589483142248506' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/8900589483142248506'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/8900589483142248506'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/2008/09/win-back-girlfriend-by-finding-out-what.html' title='Win Back a Girlfriend By Finding Out What She Desires In A Man!'/><author><name>Carrie J.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10963563740039165650</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4691512935147628295.post-3730470831814867669</id><published>2008-09-03T21:36:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-11-14T15:28:15.620-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='50 Secrets To Blissful Relationship'/><title type='text'>Honest Review of 50 Secrets To A Blissful Relationship</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;a href="http://oregongal.50secrets.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=50scweb"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.50secrets.com/50Secrets_3.gif" width="119" border="0" height="175" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;50 Secrets To Blissful Relationships - Book Review&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let's face it, there are thousands of marriage counselors and millions of relationship self-help books. So what makes 50 Secrets of Blissful Relationships by Michael Webb any different?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let's find out:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;First of all, it's great to see that, unlike many other authors, Michael Webb let's you inside his world. You get real-life examples of ways to solve relationship challenges, all based on his own personal life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Second, unlike many other “experts” and marriage counselors, Michael Webb walks the walk. Michael Webb has never had a fight with his wife of 15 years, Athena. Inside this book, you learn exactly what he's done to make this a reality. Everything you read, he does or has done to improve his relationship, and that's what I really wanted to see - experience and real-life practice.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The book itself is simply set out with about one tip per day and just continues like this until the end of the book. Just about every tip had me shaking my head in agreement, as it gave me real-life solutions and several of those “a-ha” moments of profound understanding.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The only real down side of the book is that every tip is set out with the same formula: story or unrelated example, followed by how that example ties into relationships and that exact topic.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you're impatient or in a hurry, you can always start about halfway down and find out exactly what point he's trying to make.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Also, instead of the tip titles providing a clear “how to solve X problem” or a clear topic description, it simply has a phrase that ties together with the information. Now while this is no big deal, it would have been nice to be able to skim the book to exactly the advice I wanted. Although if you read the information on the sales page, you can work out what information belongs where in the book. So it's not too bad.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;All in all, this is one of the best relationship books I've ever seen and it definitely deserves a read, especially if you have serious problems in your relationship.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Click below for more information on the book&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http:///"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://oregongal.50secrets.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=50scweb"&gt;50 Secrets to a Blissful Relationship!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4691512935147628295-3730470831814867669?l=make-upmagic.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/feeds/3730470831814867669/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4691512935147628295&amp;postID=3730470831814867669' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/3730470831814867669'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/3730470831814867669'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/2008/09/honest-review-of-50-secrets-to-blissful.html' title='Honest Review of 50 Secrets To A Blissful Relationship'/><author><name>Carrie J.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10963563740039165650</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4691512935147628295.post-3560049087126437200</id><published>2008-09-02T15:21:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-11-14T15:31:47.590-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Fear of intimacy'/><title type='text'>Fear of Intimacy - How to Overcome It and Have a Closer Relationship</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Would you describe your relationship as intimate?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You may be thinking of sex, which is definitely an intimate act, but not the definition of intimate.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;It's almost a cliche that men fear intimacy, but it's not always true and it doesn't have to be for you&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While men may have a bit more trouble with sharing their inner feelings than women, women are not immune to it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Do you even want intimacy?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some couples are comfortable having a more superficial relationship. They relate on a more surface level and seem to be happy with that. If you are in that place and are thinking something is missing, it's likely that you are missing a deeper level of connecting.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;How to define true intimacy:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Personal conversations on a regular basis&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Mutual trust&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Ability to rely on each other's confidentiality&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;A deep emotional connection&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Emotional exposure&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Both people open  - become vulnerable&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;People desire closeness to different degrees&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Those who want it and go after it are happier and better adjusted in their marriage and in their work.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;How to develop intimacy: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Use our feelings for good&lt;/span&gt; - we need to identify our feelings and be able to express them. In addition, if your partner is able to express their feelings to you it's important not to judge them or criticize them. By accepting them you enter into a deeper understanding of each other.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Self-awareness -&lt;/span&gt; Once you can understand your feelings, thoughts, needs, and behaviors you are much closer to being able to understand those of your partner. Being able to share these with your lover builds closeness. This awareness should help you be in tune with others needs and is the opposite of being self-absorbed. Becoming attuned to ourselves may show us that that there are changes that need to be made, which will help negative behaviors as well. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Compassion and empathy - &lt;/span&gt;Showing empathy means being able to experience "walking in their shoes", not just being sympathetic to them. Your partner will feel like you really understand them and are there for them. You may need to work on learning and practicing true empathy. It calls for you to be genuine, really listen to your partner and not be judgmental. It really can be learned and you will be able to be compassionate when your partner needs it.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;You may have to work hard at getting intimate with your partner.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It takes practice. A willing heart and attitude goes a long way. If you are craving more closeness and connectedness in your relationship, it is worth working on it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Maybe you feel like you are the only one trying?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That you're just not getting through to your partner? Follow this link: &lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://oregongal.50secrets.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=50scweb"&gt;50 Secrets&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; to learn how to reconnect with your lover no matter how stubborn or distant they are and no matter how hopeless or difficult your situation seems. We have helped thousands develop a close and intimate relationship with their loved one.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4691512935147628295-3560049087126437200?l=make-upmagic.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/feeds/3560049087126437200/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4691512935147628295&amp;postID=3560049087126437200' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/3560049087126437200'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/3560049087126437200'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/2008/11/fear-of-intimacy-how-to-overcome-it-and.html' title='Fear of Intimacy - How to Overcome It and Have a Closer Relationship'/><author><name>Carrie J.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10963563740039165650</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4691512935147628295.post-5182516063455067675</id><published>2008-09-01T21:19:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-10-28T13:36:48.249-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='saving a relationship'/><title type='text'>3 Techniques To Save Your Relationship</title><content type='html'>&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Healthy relationships are a big part of what gives us a fulfilling life and even allows us to live longer. Since everyone is different keeping a relationship healthy can take a lot of work. We're all different people with different thoughts, interests, dreams, and aspirations, as well as our own quirks and personality traits that can sometimes clash with others. When it clashes with a significant other the results can cause rifts and separations that may not have happened if the two of you weren't so close. When this rift happens knowing what you need to do to fix them can get you back to being happy again with your partner.&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These rifts left unchecked can cause the relationship to end. Lingering misunderstandings can further re-enforce any problems still left unresolved. In time you may not remember what it was you were originally angry or frustrated about, but still hold the emotional baggage that comes after a fight or sticky misunderstanding. Knowing how to fix these things, even in their advanced stages, will help you patch up your relationship to the happiness it used to be and make both of you feel a lot better at the end.&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Two To Tango.&lt;/span&gt; In order for a fight to happen there must be two participants. Communication and interaction with your partner are of utmost importance in a relationship. If this suddenly comes to a stop after a bad fight the reasons for it need to be looked into and ironed out. Once the root of the problem is found you need to take steps to repair the rift between the two of you so you can both move and put the conflict behind you.&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Keep The Relationship Fresh.&lt;/span&gt; It's not uncommon for things to become predictable and stagnant in a relationship. Spicing things up by surprising your partner or a short weekend get-away can renew the passion again. Random surprises and spur of the moment adventures will give you new memories to share and look back on. You can discover many new facets of your partner's personality you didn't know about from these random acts of excitement as well.&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Accepting There Is A Problem. &lt;/span&gt;If you two are fighting pretending everything is ok isn't going to solve anything. Ignoring these conflicts won't make them go away and pretending they didn't happen won't assure if the same thing is brought up again another fight, probably more heated than the first, won't happen. Find ways that you and your partner can identify the problems between you two that need to be remedied. Once you know where the difficult areas are find a way to compromise to fix the problem.&lt;/p&gt;    &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Understanding these basic reasons misunderstandings happen will go a long way to fix the problems you have now and quickly stop any more conflicts from becoming bigger than they should be. Remember, you both want things to be peaceful, fun, and exciting between the two of you, so when conflicts arise that means something needs to be addressed to restore that peace and comfort zone. The sooner you act to fix it the better.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;script src="http://forms.aweber.com/form/63/245341363.js" type="text/javascript"&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;a href="http://oregongal.50secrets.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=50scweb"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.50secrets.com/banner1.gif" width="480" border="0" height="60" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4691512935147628295-5182516063455067675?l=make-upmagic.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/feeds/5182516063455067675/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4691512935147628295&amp;postID=5182516063455067675' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/5182516063455067675'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4691512935147628295/posts/default/5182516063455067675'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://make-upmagic.blogspot.com/2008/09/3-techniques-to-save-your-relationship.html' title='3 Techniques To Save Your Relationship'/><author><name>Carrie J.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10963563740039165650</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4691512935147628295.post-6790467780585291956</id><published>2008-08-31T16:26:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-09-11T15:22:49.615-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Get ex back'/><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: verdana;font-size:130%;" &gt;7 Ways To Rekindle His Interest In You and Your&lt;br /&gt;Relationship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By Michael Webb&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Are you frustrated that your relationship doesn’t&lt;br /&gt;have the magic and romance that it once had? Scared&lt;br /&gt;this may affect or eventually end your&lt;br /&gt;relationship?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You’re not alone. Living with the same partner for&lt;br /&gt;a long time can become stable and comfortable, and,&lt;br /&gt;as a result, can also cause the loss of the spark&lt;br /&gt;that made your relationship so special in the first&lt;br /&gt;place. Here are some simple, fun and creative ideas&lt;br /&gt;to reignite that magic:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Send them a unique gift at work.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a&lt;br /&gt;bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two&lt;br /&gt;stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your&lt;br /&gt;two names pointing to the stick figures. Write ‘I&lt;br /&gt;Love You’ inside a heart. Next get a large formal&lt;br /&gt;envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a&lt;br /&gt;formal address label of your partner's workplace,&lt;br /&gt;such as:  “For the immediate and urgent attention&lt;br /&gt;of:  Rebecca Jones, Level 20, Collins &amp;amp; Smith&lt;br /&gt;Solicitors, New York.” Mail it to your partner so&lt;br /&gt;they receive it in the middle of a busy day.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. Become kids again.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and&lt;br /&gt;give your partner a ride. This will often bring&lt;br /&gt;back happy memories from their childhood.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. Fun with water.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On a hot summer’s day, buy two large water pistols&lt;br /&gt;and take them to the beach with you. Pull them out&lt;br /&gt;and throw one to your partner and then have a huge&lt;br /&gt;water fight.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. Bring back childhood memories.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Contact your partner's family and ask if there was&lt;br /&gt;anything she always wanted when she was a little&lt;br /&gt;girl. For example, if she always wanted a porcelain&lt;br /&gt;doll, buy one for her birthday. She will not only&lt;br /&gt;appreciate the gift, but also the fact that you&lt;br /&gt;were thoughtful enough to find out what she always&lt;br /&gt;wanted. You can do this for your man too.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. Organize a backyard picnic on a warm summer’s&lt;br /&gt;night.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Spread a picnic blanket on the ground and get&lt;br /&gt;together some snacks, chocolates and champagne. Lie&lt;br /&gt;down on the blanket with your partner and gaze up&lt;br /&gt;at the stars together.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6. Show you’re grateful for your partner.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Leave a long-stem rose where your partner will find&lt;br /&gt;it, with a note on it saying: "Thank you for coming&lt;br /&gt;into my life."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7. Spice up your lovemaking.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Surprise your partner with a little gift after you make&lt;br /&gt;love, try a new position, learn to give your partner a&lt;br /&gt;sensual massage before or after, or just spend some&lt;br /&gt;time staring into each other’s eyes and caressing their&lt;br /&gt;bare skin before making love.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So there you have it 7 ways to add more passion&lt;br /&gt;and excitement to your relationship starting right away.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;About the Author:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Michael Webb's latest book, "Getting Him Back"&lt;br /&gt;provides you with a step-by-step plan to get your&lt;br /&gt;ex back, help heal relationships and even prevent a&lt;br /&gt;breakup. 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